Listen to me talk about working with Sex Therapy Clients. Natalie Elliott, All rights reserved 2011 |
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Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What can I expect on my first visit?
A: A conversation. I will ask you to describe your concerns and goals for therapy.
If you wish to proceed, we’ll set up an appointment and I will give you a package of
preliminary documents for your review and completion.
As a new client you will have a comprehensive assessment that includes:
• an overview of your concerns
• a general history (and sexual history if applicable)
• relevant medical issues
• your goals and expectations for therapy
After the assessment process I will give you my professional feedback and we’ll
work together to decide on the best course of action for you. And don't worry, if
I'm not the right fit for you then I will work with you to help you find someone who
is. Don't wait another day, call me now at 888.788.4624 ext. 11.
Q: How long is a session?
A: An individual session typically lasts for 45 - 50 minutes, but couples are given 75
minutes to ensure both parties are afforded the opportunity to completely
express their feelings, thoughts, and wishes.
Q: How many sessions will I need?
A: Each client is different and therapy is tailored to meet your specific needs.
On average, the length of counseling usually runs from about 14 to 20 sessions.
Q: What if my partner does not want to come?
A: That is ok and perfectly normal. Many individuals seek couples
counseling without their partners. It allows them space and freedom
to talk about their relationship and their needs without repercussions
in a supportive non judgmental environment.
Q: What if I am single? Can I still come see you?
A: YES! Many singles find working with me helpful to either figure out the last
relationship or prepare for their next. Sometimes it can be easier to figure out
intimacy issues when there is less pressure to be intimate with someone.
Q: What is Sex Therapy?
A: Sex therapy is a unique and specialized form of professional counseling designed
to help women and men address their concerns about sexuality, sexual function, and
sexual expression. While other issues may arise during therapy, these are some of
the most common problems addressed in confidence with total confidentiality
during our sessions:
• Sexual desire or frequency discrepancies
• Arousal or inability to reach orgasm
• Sexual anxieties and inhibitions
• Painful intercourse
• Sexual identity or orientation issues
• Premature ejaculation (rapid ejaculation)
• Erection problems
• Medical problems affecting sex
• Unusual sexual desires or behaviors
• Issues related to sexual expression or function
Like any therapeutic experience, sex therapy involves talking, listening, and
education. I work with you in a private, comfortable setting. As you sit on my
couch to talk, we will identify and clarify your concerns. During therapy, I will
provide you with relevant sexual information, which might include conversations
about anatomy, physical response, and healthy sexual behavior.
Our therapy sessions will never involve any form of sexual or other inappropriate
physical contact, or the performance of any sexual activity. You will feel supported
and respected at all times. Call me now at 888.788.4624 ext. ll.
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